2010 28/02

Let’s talk about registries, baby

Oh, the registry. Point of contention the bride-o-sphere over. We’ve all felt our eyes glaze over while perusing the hundreds of salad fork options. Most of us have probably had a tug-of-war over the scan gun in Target while our man wants to head over to the Sports Equipment Department and scan himself a new basketball hoop. Alot of us already live with our future spouses and not only have one, but two of everything (even though the one he brought in from his bachelor days is hideous and should be burned.) And some of us have even said the heck with it all and registered solely for charitable donations.
First, I’ll share my opinion on the question that is becoming more and more common: To register or not to register for fine china? Presuming that our audience is the Bay Area community and few of us have time nor space to have a fancy fondue party for 12 people every Sunday, I’m going with no. My closet space is at a premium and is designated for stuff I might actually use, like snow shoes and skinny jeans that I can’t quite fit into at the moment. Our personal solution is going to come from this great line of Lenox Simply Fine dinnerware. It’s nice enough that you could have a fancy party with it, but dishwasher/microwave safe and sturdy enough for every day use. Solved.

And what about registry completion? I was surprised and pleased to find out about this helpful feature of many bridal registries. It means that after your wedding, whatever is not gifted to you, you and your new spouse can then buy for a certain percentage off. Say you registered for eight butter dishes and only received three as gifts. Then you can go buy the remaining (and essential) five butter dishes for 10% off (depending on the store’s deal.) Even better: if you want some really expensive kitchen contraption that you think nobody’s going to buy you (in my case, a $400 sparkling water maker,) put it on your registry anyway. Best case scenario, some fairy godmother/father comes through and gifts it to you. Worst case scenario, you buy it for yourself after the wedding using the store’s registry completion discount deal.

Here are some popular registries and the incentives they offer:

Bed Bath and Beyond: Lots of different incentives based on brands, like if you register for $500 worth of Calphalon stuff, you get a free Santoku knife ($300 value.) Upon registry completion, there are more (and fancier!) gifts offered by brand, like if you get $299 of Samsonite or American Tourister goods, you get a free Boarding Bag upon completion.

Macy’s: Although it appears that Macy’s has removed the links for registry discounts from their site, I would advise brides and grooms to ask in-store. Last I checked they had a pretty decent discount (10-15%) for registry completion.

Crate and Barrel: Calphalon and All-Clad offer free gifts with a certain dollar amount of registry.

And one last quick tip: Check out alternative registries like

Honeyfund.com

Uncommon Goods

JustGive.org

Happy registry!

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